Delmy

I have been wondering what to blog about all week. The first story that comes to mind and has stuck with me all week is Delmy’s story. She was brave enough to share her pain, her fears and her uncertain future with us. I admire her authentic openness no matter the cost. This was our first time meeting these people and a first for this village. I think from past experiences here that they are told to give us the best example and impression of the El Salvadian people and culture. So for her to share her story with honesty and emotion was precious to me.

Delmy giving thanks on behalf of a group of families, at the key ceremony. 

We first heard she was a single mom with one child but as we were doing the introductions there was a very cute little girl with soft brown eyes sitting beside us.  She interrupted and said (through translation) that she was going to the United States tomorrow.

We all kind of smiled and the home owner went on to tell us her father went to the USA last year but didn’t make it stayed in Mexico and started a new family. The Mother also left when she found out he was not coming back so their 3 children are orphans being raised by their grandmother. Her beautiful eyes then began to tear up and she told us her husband had left for the USA the day before while we were meeting the families.  She expressed how fearful she was that he may do the same as the other man, or die trying to get there or hurt or killed. She was afraid she may never see him again. Her pain was so clear but yet so was her strength. How beautiful she was sharing so openly and honestly.  We were able to share the hope of Jesus with her how it was not a coincidence that her husband left yesterday and today she will have a house. That God is taking care of her He had not forgotten her and he loves her dearly.  I will never forget her.  Her authentic honesty and courage to share her pain was heartbreaking, beautiful and inspiring all at the same time.

-Karen